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2011 Goals: Don’t Be a Schmuck

  • Kerrie

Sometimes you need a wake-up call in order to realize what a schmuck you’ve been.

Maybe it’s an injury that forces you to put your dream on hold. Maybe it’s a simple comment from a friend. Or maybe it’s a heated argument with someone you love.

Or, perhaps, it takes all of the above.

Looking back at the 2010 version of myself, I’m not impressed. And it’s not because I didn’t run a marathon and it’s not because I couldn’t even manage to get a first draft written of my novel(s).

Nope. The problem was focus. I was too focused. Too driven by big, big dreams. So focused, I forgot to look out the window and notice the scenery. Let me give you a little example.

Last spring, I got an email from a friend inviting me over for a Real Housewives of New Jersey finale party. (I bet that’s not what you thought I was going to say. Or maybe you did and I reveal more about myself than I mean to on this blog.) The get-together was on a Wednesday night. Not a great night of the week for me, but I coulda pulled it off with a babysitter.

In fact, I did hire a babysitter that night. But not because I was going to be down the road a few miles at a friends house drinking wine, laughing and rolling my eyes at crazy Danielle. Nope.

I hired a babysitter so I could go to the gym and run seven miles on the treadmill. Why?

Because that’s what my training plan told me to do. Gotta stay on program. Gotta get those miles in. Gotta be faster. Go harder.

About a month later, I would fracture my shin and NOT run a marathon. And, yeah, I know watching the RHNJ finale is not something that would’ve made my life any better, but having some face time with friends would’ve.

That’s just one example of the many, many things I missed out on because I was looking at life through marathon-colored glasses. It’s all I could see: me, a finish line and a medal.

Next week, I’ll post my first goal (of four) for 2011. So many of you are goal-panning now, as well. From one all-or-nothing personality type to another: When you are writing your training plans and scheduling your races, don’t be a schmuck. Don’t forget to leave time for your other loves — family and friends.

After all, you do want someone to be waiting for you at the finish line, don’t you?
 

Note: Each Wednesday in January, I will dedicate one post my Top Four goals for 2011.
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9 comments
  1. (Just) Trying is for Little Girls says:
    December 29, 2010 at 8:42 pm

    Thanks for the advice. I'm so inspired by everyone else to get my Twenty11 goals together. One of them is to always call 2011, Twenty11 because it's so dang cool.

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  2. H Love says:
    December 29, 2010 at 9:54 pm

    love this post…and this is one of my biggest goals as well!! prioroties!!

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  3. Amy says:
    December 29, 2010 at 11:14 pm

    Great advice! Can't wait to hear about your goals!

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  4. Mom_2_Pippa says:
    December 29, 2010 at 11:16 pm

    WOW! I just found your blog and wanted to say thank you!! I am just beginning my running journey and am having a tough time finding the balance between life and my new need to run. I will be a consistant follower of your blog! Im hoping that by reading your adventures and knowing that other people are attempting the same task will help keep me going! Time for me to set my 2011 goals and get them on my blog as well. http://journeytotherun.blogspot.comHappy New Year!!!!

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  5. Willoughby says:
    December 29, 2010 at 11:52 pm

    Very good advice! I'm having the opposite problem with fitness, not enough focus. My husband loves to run and I'd love to run with him. I just need to push myself a little harder.Thank you for linking my giveaway on your blog! I hope to see your followers drop by!

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  6. Glenn Jones says:
    December 30, 2010 at 2:23 am

    I know how it goes….

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  7. Alma says:
    December 30, 2010 at 3:28 am

    yeah Kerrie! i look forward to seeing your goals for 2011 and hopefully being around for some to cheer for you!

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  8. Wifey says:
    December 30, 2010 at 7:52 pm

    Great reminder! Will leave schmuckiness out of my plans. Can't wait to read your goals.Winks & Smiles,Wifey

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  9. Jill says:
    December 31, 2010 at 1:00 am

    This was a great examplet. Thanks for sharing and reminding each of us about BALANCE! We can lose sight of it sometime.

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